Between necessity and delight: Negotiating involved fatherhood among dual-earner and career couples
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Between necessity and delight : Negotiating involved fatherhood among dual-earner and career couples. / Bach, Anna Sofie.
In: Kvinder, Køn & Forskning, Vol. 2015, No. 1, 2015, p. 54-66.Research output: Contribution to journal › Journal article › Research › peer-review
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T1 - Between necessity and delight
T2 - Negotiating involved fatherhood among dual-earner and career couples
AU - Bach, Anna Sofie
PY - 2015
Y1 - 2015
N2 - Fathering practices are changing. Many fathers are no longer simply providers but are also active caregivers. While women’s entry into the labour market spurred a need for men to engage with the ‘second shift’, research has showed that men’s engagement with childcare does not necessarily imply an equal division of labour. By examining the construction of father’s identity in a context where traditional scripts for ‘doing family’ cannot (easily) be applied, this article discusses how necessity affects practices of involved fathering and the sharing of responsibilities. Based on qualitative interviews with 22 Danish men who are in relationships with so-called career women, the article argues that among this group of men, who in many ways appear as frontrunners of egalitarian family practices, fathers’ involvement is not only negotiated as a an emotional investment but also from a need to ‘make it work’. These fathers’ close relationships with their children and their parental independency is as much the result of the career orientation of the mothers as an expression of their having embraced the (Nordic) ideal of gender-neutral, symmetrical parenthood. Finally, in showing how intensive involvement and care-giving change men’s experience of fatherhood, the article contributes to the ongoing academic enquiry into what it means to be an involved father.
AB - Fathering practices are changing. Many fathers are no longer simply providers but are also active caregivers. While women’s entry into the labour market spurred a need for men to engage with the ‘second shift’, research has showed that men’s engagement with childcare does not necessarily imply an equal division of labour. By examining the construction of father’s identity in a context where traditional scripts for ‘doing family’ cannot (easily) be applied, this article discusses how necessity affects practices of involved fathering and the sharing of responsibilities. Based on qualitative interviews with 22 Danish men who are in relationships with so-called career women, the article argues that among this group of men, who in many ways appear as frontrunners of egalitarian family practices, fathers’ involvement is not only negotiated as a an emotional investment but also from a need to ‘make it work’. These fathers’ close relationships with their children and their parental independency is as much the result of the career orientation of the mothers as an expression of their having embraced the (Nordic) ideal of gender-neutral, symmetrical parenthood. Finally, in showing how intensive involvement and care-giving change men’s experience of fatherhood, the article contributes to the ongoing academic enquiry into what it means to be an involved father.
KW - Faculty of Social Sciences
KW - Fatherhood
KW - gender equality
KW - masculinity
KW - family practices
M3 - Journal article
VL - 2015
SP - 54
EP - 66
JO - Kvinder, Køn & Forskning
JF - Kvinder, Køn & Forskning
SN - 0907-6182
IS - 1
ER -
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